The Natural Pick Up Artist: Bulletproof Seduction Extended Edition

Remember all significant learning and growth happens when you are outside your comfort zone. Start to appreciate the tough approaches for what they really are; the best opportunities to learn.

When I say ‘ask’ for her number, I really mean ‘tell’ her to give it to you. You need to take a dominant lead at this point because most women will feel nervous about handing over their contact number to a strange man they just met. If you give her the slightest opportunity to go with her gut feeling she will flake on you. Avoid questions like ‘do you think I could get your number’ or ‘do you fancy swapping numbers’. Such statements are weak and make it too easy for her to reject your request. When you go for the number, hold strong eye contact and without breaking that contact say ‘you seem like someone I need to know better, give me your number and we can meet up sometime’. If she hesitates you may need to assert your dominance further. When girls have ummed and erred with me I have cut them off before they had chance to say anything by firmly saying ‘stop, just put your number in there now’. If she still refuses, don’t push it and certainly don’t beg. Withdraw the offer with something like ‘jeez and I thought you were cool’ and end the interaction. Leave her feeling like she messed it up rather than give her the opportunity to fob you off with an excuse and steal your power. Remember, “I want you but I don’t need you’.

Here is the very important conclusion you can take from this observation. People, who believe that they will always be poor, will indeed always be poor. Guys who believe they can’t catch a break with the ladies will always end up masturbating a whole lot more than they would like.

LOW CONFIDENCE: Women are like velociraptors, they are watching you from all angles. They can read your body language in a split second and if you have the slightest hint of low self-esteem about you the deal is over before you ever say the first word. If she has seen you looking at her all night, slowly drinking your way up to have the courage to approach her… let me tell you the game was over before you had you first drink. If you see a girl you like make eye contact and approach – if you pause you lose. We will talk much more about this later.

In this book you will make friends with fear. I will show you how I recognize fear not as a warning or obstacle but rather as an indicator of an opening window of opportunity. I now know that when I am afraid to do something, then this is the universe telling me clearly and specifically what I have to do next. Fear is a very strong sign to me that an opportunity to learn, develop and grow has arrived. What most people see as an obstacle I see as the most powerful gift anyone can get and I am going to give the same paradigm to you, starting today.