Straight Talk, No Chaser

When I and the men I know have been confronted by a woman who respected herself and held her future in such high regard that she made it clear that she deserved only the best and would settle for nothing less, we’ve had no choice but to take stock and treat her with due regard

See, a man doesn’t do anything unless he knows there’s a sound reason for doing it.

The man who is genuinely interested in having a solid relationship with you wants to care for you, wants to hold your hand and provide a shoulder that’ll help you through the hard times, wants to spend his money making sure you’re provided for, wants to make sure no one ever hurts you, wants to be a good father to your children, wants to see you succeed because he knows it’s for the greater well-being of the family and makes you happy. We have no interest in creating you. We want to come in and complete you

the way a man shows his love for a woman is by providing for her, protecting her, and professing for her—giving her the title of girlfriend, lady, or wife

it’s what all men want—comfort, peace, and companionship

away. Let him know that you have every intention of being married in a certain time frame and if he doesn’t want to be a part of it, you have to move on

Ask him when he sees himself getting married—if it’ll happen in a year, two, or three. If he comes back with “I’m not the marrying type” or claims he’s not looking to get married “anytime soon,” don’t walk, run away

Do What You Say You’re Going to Do

’m just looking for honesty—it really turns me on when a man tells the truth,

How is your relationship with their mother?