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  • forgetenothat Zitat gemachtvor 5 Jahren
    Does this mean that in order to be happy in a relationship we need to be joined with our partner at the hip or give up other aspects of our life such as our careers or friends? Paradoxically, the opposite is true! It turns out that the ability to step into the world on our own often stems from the knowledge that there is someone beside us whom we can count on—and this is the “dependency paradox.” The logic of this paradox is hard to follow at first. How can we act more independent by being thoroughly dependent on someone else? If we had to describe the basic premise of adult attachment in a single sentence, it would be: If you want to take the road to independence and happiness, first find the right person to depend on and travel down it with them. Once you understand this, you’ve grasped the essence of attachment theory.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvorgestern
    Attachment styles were first defined by researchers observing the way babies (usually 9 to 18 months old) behaved during the strange situation test (a reunion with a parent after a stressful separation, described on page 29).
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    It seems, then, that our partners powerfully affect our ability to thrive in the world.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    When our partner is unable to meet our basic attachment needs, we experience a chronic sense of disquiet and tension that leaves us more exposed to various ailments.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    If, on the other hand, you are not satisfied with your marriage, contact with your partner will actually raise your blood pres
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    Dr. Baker found that if you have a mild form of high blood pressure, being in a satisfying marriage is good for you; spending time in the presence of your partner actually benefits you by lowering your blood pressure to healthier levels.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    who reported the highest satisfaction levels in their relationship benefited most from spousal support.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    After all, our brain assigns our partner the task of being our secure base, the person we use as an emotional anchor and a safe haven, the one we turn to in time of need.
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    If we feel secure, like the infant in the strange situation test when her mother is present, the world is at our feet. We can take risks, be creative, and pursue our dreams. And if we lack that sense of security? If we are unsure whether the person closest to us, our romantic partner, truly believes in us and supports us and will be there for us in times of need, we’ll find it much harder to maintain focus and engage in life. As in the strange situation test, when our partners are thoroughly dependable and make us feel safe, and especially if they know how to reassure us during the hard times, we can turn our attention to all the other aspects of life that make our exis
  • Ana Kashurohat Zitat gemachtvor 3 Tagen
    you want to take the road to independence and happiness, first find the right person to depend on and travel down it with them. Once you understand this, you’ve grasped the essence of attachment theory.
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