Dave Gray

What I learned from Kurt is that beliefs are often the main things standing in the way of change,

confidence and courage I gained by quitting smoking led me to change my life in far more profound ways. Within the next few months, I ended my relationship with my girlfriend, quit my job, changed industries, moved across the country, and started my own business.

This is what the story of the blind men and the elephant is all about. We are all blind. Reality is like the elephant. We may be able to grasp pieces of the truth, but the whole truth about reality is unknowable.

When people confuse their beliefs with reality, they get into arguments and conflicts, sometimes even wars.